Celebrating Sara

GALLERY

It was a special day for our family on Sunday. We did our first Susan G. Koman walk together to celebrate Sara as she is cancer free now for two years. Even though the cancer is gone her road to recovery is still well traveled. Sara wants to share her story saying “If putting myself and my story out there motivates or encourages just one person it will be worth it.”

“Being diagnosed with cancer comes with many struggles, mentally and physically everyday. The thoughts of cancer coming back are always in my mind. It’s hard to shake this thinking and not get lost in a spiral of negative thoughts. I struggle with my body image. The scars are hard to look at sometimes. What I have had to endure these past few years has made me appreciate my life so much more. I am stronger than I thought I was and I am thankful for everything I have been blessed with. My husband, my children, and my family. I would do anything for them.”

Sara’s story actually started with her husband Cris. He was diagnosed with bile duct cancer in early 2019 and underwent major surgery on April 1st of 2019. At the time of his surgery they did not know what his future, their future as a family would hold. Cris was in his mid 30’s and very athletic so he had his age and good health on his side. Facing the unknown is always extremely difficult. They didn’t know for sure if it had spread or if the surgery itself would effect his every day life. The surgery was successful but he was still facing six months of powerful chemotherapy. They were living one day at a time through some extremely hard times. Going through chemo, raising two little boys and trying to keep a bit of normalcy, and then life was about to throw them another curve ball.

” I got the call on Friday August 23, 2019.” Only three months into her husbands chemotherapy. The breast cancer diagnosis was confirmed. Earlier in the year Sara had done a self breast exam and felt a lump. After a mammogram and a biopsy, it was confirmed. “The first thing that I thought of when they said it was cancer was my children. I felt angry and heart broken. They didn’t deserve to have both parents sick at the same time.” Her husband was just halfway through his chemo and now she would not only have to continue to stay strong for him but also make some very difficult decisions about her future.

With her diagnosis a double mastectomy was the best decision. After her surgery and additional testing she was told the cancer was contained. She had caught it in time. She and Cris can now heal together and try to recover from this whirlwind that swept through their family. Trying to accept the fact they will probably never be able to have any more children was also difficult for Sara to hear. They continued to heal and lived their life one day at a time, Brunson style. Their new normal.

” I chose to do this photoshoot with Cris because not only did we fight our own cancer battles but we fought them together. This has made us stronger as a couple and as a family. I wanted to document this time in our lives.”

As a photographer I have to say this was the most powerful shoot I have ever done. So intimate and so vulnerable, it was very moving. I am praying that when Sara looks at these images it will be a part of her healing process. Knowing she is more than the scars that have been left behind from a time in her life that she so graciously defeated. This shoot was also to celebrate that they defied the odds. With every obstacle that had been thrown at them, this was also a maternity shoot. Not just one but two little blessings were about to join the family.

Staying strong and fighting for what she loves is what got her to where she is today. Living her best life as a boy mom of 4. #blessed #Brunson Strong

Where do I begin?

GALLERY

Welcome to my first ever photography blog. To be honest, I have no clue what I am doing or where this will take me but here we go….

My first blog. Where do I begin? If you know me, I love several areas of photography. I love my family sessions, kids, couples, seniors, and maternity but, I also love nature, travel and so much more. I’m gonna mix it up! All my loves! I think I can share it all. So I came up with a great idea for my first blog! Where better to start then in the beginning….

That one day, the day that made a difference in my life. My daughter asked me if I would take her engagement pictures. She knew I loved photography but my thoughts were I can’t do that… I am not a photographer. Lots of their friends were getting married and had professional photographers do their engagement pictures so I really hesitated with the decision.

October 8, 2011. I did Jessie and Trevor’s engagement session. I think some were blurry, some taken in auto mode and aperture priority but… I did it. AND I loved every second of it. I was hooked and inspired. I was addicted! I wanted to learn more, I wanted to take more pictures! Something happened that day that I can honestly say will be in my thoughts and in my heart forever.

In this type of business it’s hard, its hard not to compare yourself with others and their work. When you do let go of that hold it’s very freeing. Clients come to you for who YOU are and what your vision is and that makes my heart happy.

So I share with you my beginning, as simple as it is, it was monumental to me. Hope you enjoy some of my firsts, my sweet daughter and son in law. This blog is dedicated to Jessie, my inspiration then and now!